[T]he tricky reality of life is that it is not simply "either/or." If it were, we could cope without confusion and frustration. Life, however, is "both/and." Both glorious and horrendous. Both joyful and sad. Both comforting and unbearable. And though we were made for glory, joy, and comfort in God's presence, we have to cope every day with horror, sadness, and the unbearable.